I have never attended a peace vigil. As
someone that supports non-violence and fairness among people, the visuals I
have seen of people coming together in candlelight to honor peace or remember
those that have fallen victim to its antithesis have always pulled at my heart.
In my mind, the collectivism and reflection of such events have always centered
on the greatest qualities in people, particularly when they occur in the face
of tragedies and senseless acts of violence. As a result, I have always
intended to attend a peace vigil if the opportunity ever presented itself, but
I have never been able to make it to any of the rare opportunities I have had
to do so up to this point in my life. As a result, I decided I would try to
seek out such an opportunity during the course of my “I have never...” year,
hoping that such an event wouldn’t spring from an unexpected, harrowing event.
Winter night at the Capitol |
Given my
intent to attend a peace vigil as one of my 365 new experiences, I kept my eyes
open for any events directed at promoting peace. Eventually, this effort led me
to discover a small peace vigil that has occurred in Madison since the Sikh
temple shooting that occurred outside of Milwaukee, Wisconsin in August of
2012. A little research on the gathering revealed that event occurred monthly
outside of the Wisconsin state capitol building in an effort to carry on the
memory of those lost in the attack and to promote non-violence in our
communities. Realizing the event fit the profile of event I was hoping to
attend, I decided I would set aside time to attend the peace vigil on the next
date of relevance to peace and non-violence, which happened to fall on today,
one day before the observance of the Martin Luther King Junior holiday.
As a result,
I made my way down to the capitol building at dusk this evening with a candle
in hand. There I met a man by the name of Callen, who was busy placing out
small, battery operated candles when I arrived. He was quick to welcome me to
the event and provide some background on its occurrence, which mirrored the
description I had read some months earlier. As we chatted about my reasons for
attending, another man wearing a long, white beard approached us and gave a
warm greeting. Introducing himself as David, he explained he was one of the
organizers for the Madison Veterans for Peace association and thanked me for
taking time to be a part of the event. Uplifted by the warm welcome from the
two men, I asked a little bit about the peace vigil, which prompted Callen to
explain the basic flow of the event and explain that the winter gatherings tend
to draw a smaller crowd than the warmer months. Understanding, I nodded my head
and gave the only response that came to mind, “Well, we’re here.” Callen smiled
at my remark and offered an immediate reply, “That’s right, and that’s enough
to send out our message. That’s all we really need.”
A few candles |
A few
minutes later Callen broke the silence with a few quiet words about the meaning
of our vigil and its proximity to the Martin Luther King holiday. With that, he
opened the vigil up to the remaining members of the group, asking us to provide
our thoughts or points of discussion as we saw fit. In response, the four of us
openly discussed our experiences with non-violent and peaceful pursuits. From
that, I heard stories of David’s efforts through Veterans for Peace, of
Callen’s efforts in the LGBT civil rights movements, and of Jane’s actions
toward political peace and fairness. The comments made it obvious I was
surrounded by people with a real commitment and devotion to their causes and an
understanding of how their individual efforts helped the group collectively.
Where I could, I offered experiences from my life and my “I have never...” year
which I thought carried some relevance to the conversation, which were welcomed
and used as fodder to keep the discussion going. The conversation was
far-reaching, but bound by the same core. It was powerful and it was
enlightening.
After nearly 45 minutes of conversation, Callen ultimately brought the peace vigil to a close. With the cold seeping in through our clothes, the four of us spurred our bodies into motion as we extinguished our candles and tucked them away into their respective bags. Then, with a few final words and well wishes we walked our separate ways and found our way to wherever we were going. When I arrived back home I sat down on my couch to think about the experience I had this evening. It suddenly dawned on me that I had come together with three complete strangers under a common, human bond in an effort to support one of the most admirable pursuits of peace. Our action may have gone largely unnoticed, even to those passing by, but the fact that we took time to promote such an endeavor was inspiring and heartfelt. While the idea driving the gathering may be lofty, I realized our time together was better than the alternative of doing nothing. That alone made the experience worth it, particularly on the day before our nation remembers a man that fought and died for peace and equality among all people. Doing anything to support that legacy, even the smallest act, makes me feel like a more complete person, and when it comes down to it, that’s what this whole “I have never...” year is really about.
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